Sunday, May 15, 2011

How to Give Your First Blow Job: 5 Steps to Suck-cess

Have you been thinking about giving your first blow job, but feeling a little nervous about actually doing it? Maybe you're worried that you'll do something wrong, or that you'll be so bad that the boy won;t enjoy it. It's completely normal to be nervous about trying something new for the first time. Fortunately, giving a blow job isn't rocket science. Following this step-by-step guide is all it will take to make your first blow job a huge "suck-cess."

1) Get into position. When you're ready to give your first blow job, you will need to get into a position where you can put the penis into your mouth and move your head. The traditional position for a blow job is for the girl to be on her knees with the boy standing or sitting in front of her. Another good position is for the girl to be sitting with the boy standing in front of her. However, any position is fine as long as you can stay in it awhile and move your head.

2) Put the penis into your mouth. When the boy takes his penis out (or has you take it out), use your hand to stroke the shaft a few times to get used to handling it, and then put just the head into your mouth. Alternate between swirling your tongue around the head and sucking on it while you continue stroking the shaft. When he's almost or completely hard, try putting more of his penis into your mouth. See how much you can take before it causes you start to gag a little. When you find that point, put your hand around the base of his penis high enough so that only that much penis will go in. Sometimes, when a boy gets excited, he starts thrusting his hips or pushing your head down. If he does, using your hand for a "stopper" will prevent him from pushing his penis in farther than you can handle.

You might be surprised at how good it feels to have a penis in your mouth. Having something in your mouth to suck on usually feels good anyway, and the silky soft skin, the hard shaft, and the spongier head of a penis provide a variety of sensations for your mouth and tongue. The most sensitive parts of the penis are the head and the underside of the shaft, so you'll want to give them extra attention. Speaking of sensitivity, be careful with your teeth. Use your lips to shield your teeth so that you don't bite or scrape his penis with them.

3) Use pressure and movement to get him excited. There's more to giving a blow job than just bobbing your head up and down. Pressure and movement are what cause a penis to ejaculate. However, without pressure, all the movement in the world won't make most boys climax, so try to keep your mouth as tight on his penis as you can. Also, be sure to use your tongue a lot. This warm, wet, flexible organ is what makes blow jobs feel so good, so use it as much as you can.

When the boy begins to ooze pre-ejaculatory fluid, aka pre-cum, from the tip of his penis, it's a sign that you're making progress. This is not semen, nor the ejaculation, but it indicates that the boy is turned on by what you're doing. From this point on, be sure to keep the penis in your mouth and keep up the pressure and movement. If your jaws and tongue get tired, you can use your hand to help keep the pressure on.

4) Bring him to orgasm. As a boy gets close to orgasm, he may start making noises, thrusting his hips, or grabbing your head. (Remember the "stopper" technique?) If he does, keep doing whatever you were doing that got him to that point because that’s what will take him over the edge. You should be pumping fast and furiously with your mouth (and your hand if you can’t move fast enough with your mouth).

Just before ejaculation, you may feel the penis harden, swell, and spasm, but that first spurt of semen may still catch you by surprise. You may also be surprised by the force and amount of the ejaculation, whcih can sometimes be a little overwhelming, even though it’s also exciting and satisfying since you know that you caused it. Just hang on and enjoy your reward for doing a good job.

5) Swallow. Be sure to keep stimulating his penis during his ejaculation. This makes his climax last longer and feel better. Continuing to suck through the orgasm – “sucking him dry” – leaves him both physically and emotionally satisfied. You can either swallow his semen as he ejaculates, or keep it in your mouth and swallow it afterward. Swallowing afterward is better because that gives you the chance to savor the taste and texture (which varies from boy to boy). Also, boys love to watch you swallow their semen!

After the boy finishes ejaculating and you've swallowed what was in your mouth, you can finish the blow job by”milking” his penis - squeezing at the base and sliding your hand up the shaft toward the head - to get the last bit of semen out, and then licking his penis clean. When you’re finished, smiling at him and saying something nice about his penis, how big an ejaculation he had, how good his semen tasted, or how much you enjoyed giving him a blow job will make him feel even better than he already does.

Once you've had "suck-cess" with your first blow job and found out for yourself how much fun they are, you will undoubtedly be giving many more. My posts 8 Fellatio Tricks That Drive Men Wild and 5 Advanced Fellatio Techniques can give you some ideas for new things to try with your future blow jobs, but eventually, you'll develop your own blow job style. Have fun!

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

1 comment:

Ridzuan said...

Great tutorial! How to know if the girl is a first timer or had experience in blowjob. Most first timer don't cover their teeth during bjb right