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How to Perform Great Fellatio and Cunnilingus

How to Give Fellatio to an Uncircumcised Penis

While circumcision as a religious rite has been around for thousands of years, the practice took hold in the United States in the late 1800s as a means of curbing sexual diseases and masturbation. By the 1970s, 80 percent of American male infants were circumcised. Today, that figure has dropped to 60 percent, but this still far exceeds the international average of 15 percent. Many American women have literally never seen an uncircumcised penis and don't know what to do with one when they encounter it, especially when it comes to oral sex. Performing fellatio on an uncircumcised penis can be a pleasurable experience for both you and your partner as long as you are gentler with your moves.

The first and most important thing to know is that the foreskin is actually the most sexually pleasurable part of a man's body, similar to how the clitoris is the most pleasurable part of a woman's body. Near the tip of the foreskin is an area called the ridged band. This area that circles the end of the penis contains almost 20,000 nerve endings designed to be sexually pleasurable. That's over half of the erogenous nerve endings in the penis.

While those additional nerves can create extra feeling, they also create extra sensitivities. When a clitoris is stimulated too early in a cunnilingus session, a woman will sometimes feel pain. In order to make your partner enjoy fellatio, you should go slowly at the beginning and warm him up with your suction. Once he is highly aroused, you can go slightly harder on your maneuvers.

Let me highlight three important things to take note of when your man’s penis is uncircumcised:

1) Because your man's penis is uncircumcised, the foreskin is extremely sensitive to any of your maneuvers. You need to be extra careful not to scrape your teeth on his penis or suck it too hard because this may cause him a lot of pain and turn him off completely.

2) When giving fellatio to an uncircumcised penis, you need to be gentler so that your man will not experience discomfort or pain. Start off with slow strokes and maintain it unless he requests you to go harder. Even if he asks you to go harder on the strokes, you should always gradually increase your pressure.

3) Once an uncircumcised penis is fully erect, the foreskin rolls back on its own. However, sometimes it can stay put, so you may need to move it away from the tip. Be sure to ask for permission first, and then carefully slip it back a little. Don’t push is past the head and don’t be forceful.

One fellatio technique that you can only do with an uncircumcised penis is circling the inside of the foreskin with your tongue. For an added sensation, flick the head of his penis with your tongue similar to the way he would flick your clitoris with his tongue. If you want to drive him crazy, try sucking and licking his penis and moving the foreskin up and down on the shaft at the same time. You can also lightly massage the head with your thumb and index finger, but don’t press too hard. Some men can’t handle too much attention being paid to their intact tip, so don’t take it personally if he wants you to back off.

Fellatio on an uncircumcised penis can be like a walk in heaven for both you and him. His pleasure will be so intense that he'll be putty in your hands, and you'll always know when he's truly aroused. Giving your man pleasure orally can be a very good experience for your relationship. When your man is pleased, he'll want to do the same for you.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

How to Deep Throat a Really Long Penis

So, you've learned to deep throat a penis, and maybe even mastered some advanced techniques. You consider yourself quite the deep throat queen. Then you meet a new man, one thing leads to another, and you wind up in bed together. Once the boxers come off, you can't help but notice something about your new lover: he has a long penis - a really long penis. It's at least an inch or two longer than the longest penis you've ever deep throated before, and at that time you thought you'd swallowed as much as you possibly could.

Are you going to have to abdicate your throne, and settle for being a common fellatrix? Not necessarily. If your man is exceedingly lengthy, and you just won’t be happy until you can swallow all of him to the root, here’s the technique you’ll need to penetrate further into the esophagus. It's not easy for some women, but, remember that most sword swallowers can swallow swords from about 16" to 22" (about 40 to 60 cm). You can probably learn to swallow half that length.

When faced with this huge penis, your brain will become alarmed that this massive intruder might go into your windpipe, so it will create a sphincter in there that closes up. How do you get around it? Have you ever sucked air into your stomach to make a burp? You do it by opening your throat and sucking in. That’s the technique you use to get down into your esophagus. When you feel his penis "hit bottom" around the 7" to 9" mark (18 to 23 cm), do four things right away: (1) open your throat and suck in; (2) swallow hard; (3) move your tongue vigorously inward; and (4) push gently.

The first few times you may have to push a little harder than you might assume you would because you are fighting against your own brain here. Also, the first few times there will probably be a momentary flash of a brand new sensation deep in your throat. This is caused by the stimulation of thousands of nerves that had hitherto been unused. Your brain is rapidly trying to sort out whether it’s pain, or heat, or what. Actually, it’s just pressure, which your brain will figure out in a second or two.

As you gain experience, your brain will eventually recognize the signals, and you will feel only the pleasure of the penis's surface sliding along the smooth surface of the inside of your esophagus. Deep throating a really long penis is definitely more difficult than deep throating an average-sized one, but certainly not impossible if you want to attempt it.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

5 Reasons to Swallow Your Man's Semen

To spit or to swallow? That is the question. Women are split on the issue. Some act as if semen is poison while others greedily swallow and suck their man dry. When asked, most men say they prefer that the woman swallow. Since the purpose of fellatio is to give pleasure to your man, that would seem to settle the question. However, if that's not enough to convince you, there are even more reasons to swallow your man's semen.

1) It's polite. After all it's rude to spit. Also, wouldn't you be offended if your man ran to the bathroom to gargle with mouthwash after going down on you? What sort of message does it convey to immediately run to the nearest sink to spit?

2) It's environmentally friendly. Spitting out semen wastes tissues and paper towels, destroys trees, and adds to our landfill problems. Swallowing semen is a form of environmentally-friendly recycling.

3) It's healthful. Swallowing semen may help prevent depression and lower blood pressure. Also, those concerned with nutrition and daily vitamins will be pleased to find that the average ejaculate contains calcium, magnesium, potassium, vitamin B-12, and zinc. Plus, for all you dieters out there, the caloric content of semen is a measly 15 calories.

4) Your man wants you to. If a man has to worry about ejaculating, feeling that it is an imposition on you or the cause of unpleasantness, he cannot fully relax and cannot fully enjoy his climax. Also, continuing to suck through the orgasm - “sucking him dry" - leaves him both physically and emotionally satisfied. In addition, swallowing semen has deep, symbolic significance to men. Spitting out his semen is a symbolic rejection to many men. By swallowing, you indicate your complete acceptance of him.

5) God wants you to. There is nothing in the Bible that forbids engaging in acts of oral sex. In fact, according to one Bible expert, the Bible specifically encourages fellatio to completion (orgasm), though only if the female partner consumes or swallows the ejaculate. This prevents spilling seed, which is an affront to God, and also provides spiritual benefit to the woman. Performing fellatio to completion and then spitting out the resulting ejaculate should be almost unthinkable to anyone who believes in the Bible.

A woman who swallows puts her partner at ease and allows him to relax and enjoy one of the most intimate and pleasurable sex acts she can perform on him. Women who don't swallow usually blame their gag reflex or the taste of semen for their refusal. If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, check out these seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

Irrumatio is actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner. A distinction was once made between irrumatio and fellatio based on who is actively moving. Irrumatio meant to thrust the penis into the partner's mouth; fellatio meant to move the head and mouth up-and-down around the penis, but this distinction has almost completely vanished in modern English.

Irrumatio gives a different experience to a man than when he is being fellated by a woman because he's the one moving, he's more tense and active, and he's controlling his experience much more so than in the regular fellatio. What does a woman get out of irrumatio? As with any sex act, pleasing the partner is sometimes more important than deriving any innate pleasure from the act itself. Most woman are not going to "get off" on being still and having their mouths used in the same way as their vaginas. The benefit will largely be the knowledge that she is pleasing her partner.

In some cases, however, the woman may enjoy it just as much as the man does. Many women enjoy rough sex to one degree or another, and some women like to be "degraded" or dominated. There's nothing wrong with that at all, so long as it is something you do consensually (and recognize that it has to be confined to the bedroom).

If you and your partner want to try this, lie down on your back with a pillow under your head. He should straddle you with his hands and knees so that his crotch is over your face, and his head is above yours. He should move around until he can easily fit his penis into your mouth. You should make your mouth wet and form a snug ring with her lips around his shaft. Basically, any position that works well for regular oral sex will work for irrumatio as long as it allows the man to move his hips.

In fellatio, the woman is the one who controls how fast and deep the penis goes into her mouth. In irrumatio, however, the man is the one who's in control for the most part. If you can learn to overcome your gag reflex, then irrumatio will become a bit easier for you. Deep throat is a form of oral sex in which the entire length of the erect penis is taken into the mouth. If you can’t do that and want to learn how, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It.

You can also use the Stopper Technique to maintain some control over the depth of his thrusts. Wrap one hand around his lower shaft, to use as a stopper, allowing only as much of his penis into your mouth as you're comfortable with. If your hand is at the base, this also adds a pleasurable pressure against his body. You can use your hand to squeeze and stroke the lower part of his penis as the top part slides in and out, moving the hand down to the base as the penis slides in.

When he begins thrusting, he should slide his penis in and out with his hips, without moving his knees or using his hands. He can add things like rocking his pelvis from side to side or circularly (called "grinding"), or you can rock your head from side to side, or move it up and back to meet his strokes, or use your tongue if you like.

It is important that he start out slowly, and work his way up in terms of speed and depth. You should find some way to let your partner know when he's going too deep, especially if your head is resting against something that doesn't allow you to pull back. Agree to a signal before you get started. Don't plan on using verbal communication because you'll have a penis in your mouth and may not be able to speak in time. Using your hands to tap him on his leg (or wherever) when he starts getting too deep is a good idea. If you are the man, it is very important that you stop the instant your partner indicates that something is wrong, The more you do this, the more "in tune" you'll be with your partner, and you'll gradually develop the ability to sense when it is becoming too much for her.

Irrumatio is another sex act that can be added to your sexual repertoire and enjoyed as you feel the desire to do it. Some women can get into this second kind of fellatio while others don't like it. A frequent complaint is that the woman feels abused, that she has no control and the man thrusts too deeply or violently, causing gagging, fear, or other troubles. This needn't happen if the couple can talk freely and respect their own and each other's wants and needs.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

http://sexsecretsblog.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&post=474The Kivin Method, also known as "Tahitian cunnilingus," is an amazing oral sex technique that will delight any woman. It's a method that can give a woman a rapid, intense orgasm. Best of all, it's easy to learn and do. No tongue gymnastics are required.

Have her get comfortable in a reclined position, her legs open. Make sure that you kiss, suck, and lick her thighs, her navel and all of the areas around her vagina. Do not make premature contact with her vagina. As she slowly becomes more aroused, continue teasing her with your tongue and lips and slowly massage her vagina.

When she is ready, position your head so that it is perpendicular to her body. Place two fingers on either side of the hood of her clitoris and slowly run your tongue back and forth, and over and under the hood. In other words, your head should be at a 90 degree angle to her, and you will be licking up and down, but because you are perpendicular, your tongue will travel from side to side.

Place the flat of your thumb or finger on her perineum - the area of skin between the anus and the vagina - and gently apply pressure without moving. The pressure on the perineum stimulates the anal sphincter muscles, which are the strongest muscles involved in female orgasm and really heighten the pleasure. Many women experience a deeper orgasm from the connection they feel between their clitoris and their perineum.

Continue stimulating her clitoral hood, slowly increasing your speed. As you feel her nearing orgasm, transfer your tongue to the head of her clitoris. Continue to stimulate and hold her while she climaxes. Let her enjoy herself and continue to stimulate her until she lets you know you can stop.

Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. Oral sex done right can take your partner to new heights of pleasure and ecstasy! However, cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring technique, practice, and knowledge to get it right. To discover the forgotten oral sex secrets to make her climax more often, even if she's never had an orgasm before!, click here.

8 Fellatio Tricks That Drive Men Wild

Every man loves receiving fellatio from his woman, and your man is no exception. It is a great way to give him pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. Social messages about fellatio suggest that men love it so much that they don’t care about technique. In reality, consummate skill is required to suck a man's penis and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. While practice makes perfect, here are eight tricks you can use to improve your fellatio technique.

1) Around the World. This is kissing and licking the body all over. If you're moving down his stomach, you can kiss your way into his crotch, or use a somewhat pointed tongue in flicking motions within the groove of the crotch, between the thigh and testicles. You can tongue the scrotum itself, licking and cuddling his testicles with a soft, caressing tongue, and even draw one or both into the mouth with very light sucking motions or humming. From here, you can massage his perineum, the space between the testicles and anus, and even go on to tongue the anus also. (If he likes that, see my post Analingus: The Dark Kiss for more techniques.)

2) Blowing Hot and Cold. Go down on the penis shaft as far as you can with your lips firmly wrapped around it. (If you can’t take the entire length of his erect penis into your mouth and want to learn how, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It.) Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air, let your open mouth travel up to the penis’s head. Your upstroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Then, with your mouth still open, let out the air in your lungs slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the shaft. This technique cools the penis on the upstroke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke.

3) The Butterfly Flutter. Firmly wrap your lips around the penis where you can reach the tip comfortably. Gently flick the tip of the head with your tongue a few times, and then slowly suck the penis further into your mouth. Do not take in too much. Only go as far as where your tongue can still reach the tip of the penis comfortably. Lick the distance a few times to be sure that it is a comfortable distance and then "flutter" your tongue up and down the length of the penis in your mouth.

4) The Circle. Place his erect penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. The circle should be performed both clockwise and counterclockwise in a slow, purposeful manner.

5) The Lollipop Lick. With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front, lift his erect penis to reveal his testicles. With your tongue, find the underside of his testicles. Then, while resting them on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. You can also use your hands in this technique if necessary. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

6) The Quickie. There are times when you will want to get your man off in a hurry because you are short on time, such as a lunch break visit to the office. It is fairly easy to give him an orgasm by simply sucking on the most sensitive parts of his penis. Place your lips around your partner's head and twirl your lips and your tongue around the corona and frenulum. Keep your mouth wet and gently continue your movements until he orgasms. This will not take long, and no other fellatio techniques or hand movements are required though you can incorporate them if you would like to. (If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, try these seven tips for overcoming the gag reflex and the taste.) One other use of this technique is to get him hard again after he ejaculates.

7) The Shirley Temple. If you make your tongue soft, thick and rounded, you can cuddle the penis with broad, languorous lapping strokes, caressing and enveloping it. This is called the Shirley Temple, because it's like licking a big lollipop.

8) The Traveling Figure Eight. With your lips firmly wrapped around the penis shaft, try very slowly to reach the base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base of the penis. With your nose, trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on its side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the penis to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the shaft.

There is only one true way to do fellatio, and that's with enthusiasm. You have to love what you're doing to him, either because you love him or you love fellatio. Loving both is best!

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

5 Advanced Fellatio Techniques

Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. It is a great way to give pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. Giving good fellatio is much more complex than simply bobbing one's head up and down. Like all other sexual skills, it must be learned. Once you get the basics, and are comfortable and experienced with them, try these fice advanced fellatio techniques to increase his pleasure.

1) Encircle your tongue around and around the helmet of his penis, meaning that you lick with the front and back of your tongue.

2) As you're moving up his shaft with your mouth, turn your head a bit from side to side, letting your tongue follow a corkscrew pattern. When you get to that part of the shaft just beneath the head be sure to lick it for a few seconds before moving all the way up to the top. Then repeat this moving down his shaft. What will drive him wild about this is that you aren't just going up and down, you're also going sideways.

3) Stimulating another part of your man's body while performing fellatio is a sure way to tip him over the edge quickly. Try sliding your hands underneath your man's butt and massaging his cheeks while taking him in your mouth, pumping your fingers into his cheeks in time with thrusting up and down along the shaft of his penis with your mouth.

4) To heighten his orgasm, place your thumb at the very base of the penis blocking the tube through which the semen spurts so the the semen cannot escape.

5) After your man has ejaculated, run your hands over his testicles and ever so gently squeeze them between your thumb and fingers. It will feel like another mini orgasm.

If you would like to make fellatio an even better experience for your man by swallowing his semen, read 7 Tips for Swallowing Semen. If you’re ready to learn the ultimate oral sex technique, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It. Once you’ve mastered deep throat, here are five advanced techniques you can learn to make deep throat even more enjoyable for your man.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here.

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